What Is Domestic Abuse?

Since April 2013, Domestic Abuse has been defined by the Government as

“Any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, насилство или злоупотреба меѓу оние на возраст 16 or over who are or have been intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality. This can encompass, но не е ограничено на, the following types of abuse:

• psychological

• physical

• sexual

• financial

• emotional

Controlling behaviour is: a range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, искористување на нивните ресурси и капацитети за лична корист, лишувајќи ги од средствата потребни за независност, отпор и да избега и регулирање на нивниот секојдневен однесување.

Coercive behaviour is: an act or a pattern of acts of assault, закани, понижување и заплашување или злоупотреба што се користи за да му наштетат, казни, или исплашат својата жртва

Whatever form it takes, domestic abuse is rarely a one-off incident, and should instead be seen as a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour through which the abuser seeks power over their victim. Typically the abuse involves a pattern of abusive and controlling behaviour, which tends to get worse over time. The abuse can begin at any time, in the first year, or after many years of life together. It may begin, continue, or escalate after a couple have separated and may take place not only in the home but also in a public place.

Domestic abuse occurs across society, regardless of age, gender, race, sexuality, wealth, and geography.

Women’s Aid defines domestic abuse as an incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, присилно, threatening, degrading and violent behaviour, including sexual violence, by a partner or ex-partner. It is very common. In the vast majority of cases it is experienced by women and is perpetrated by men.